Things You Must Do With Your Wife

#01

Play with her, any halal game at all (the Prophet Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم use to race with Aisha) an Allah loves it when a husband plays with his wife.

#02

Treat her kindly and offer her everything that will soften her heart towards you (its a warning from the prophet on his last sermon at Arafat)

#03

Call her with sweet nickname( The Prophet Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم used to call Aisha R.A “Humaira”)

#04

Buy her gifts sometimes even if is toffee (They loved to be treated like a baby)

#05

Honor Her parents and buy them presents sometimes.

#06

Help her in domestic activities eg. Cooking, washing, tiding up the room etc. anytime you are available (It’s Sunnah)

#07

Appreciate the good things she has been ding for you and be thanking her for that always. Allah says; “He who does not thank people does not thank me.”

#08

Let her know how much she means to you, how much you love her and how lucky you are to love her.

#09

BE carrying her to bed sometimes like a baby.

#10

Before criticizing her, praise her first.

#11

Make yourself attractive to her always by smelling good (both mouth and body, its sunnah).

#12

Chat with her sometimes when you are together.

#13

Phone to tell her, ” I miss You”,” I love You” When you are at work.

#14

Be doing things together with her, e.g. Cooking, Eating, Bathing Janabah, Reading Quran, etc.

#15

Don’t Revel her fault in front of others.

#16

Avoid hitting, beating or harming her.

#17

Teach her about the deen what she don’t know and encourage her on matters of the deen.

#18

Encourage her to wearing Hijab( its compulsory), Praying the five times salat at its fixed times and be fasting in the month of ramadan.

#19

Thank Allah for the Hauwa of your Life.

#20

Always Remember her in your duas.

#21

Be the path she will enter into JANNAH.